To Doron -- The Gift
To Doron means the gift in Greek. I picked it because I figured the name would be available and I am learning Koine Greek with my kids. This blog contains information on things I have learned or found interesting or useful. Included are the following subjects: Classics, Great Books of the Western World, Homeschooling, Healthy Habits, Housekeeping, Religion and Economics.
Sunday, August 3, 2014
my new gratitude journal blog
Monday, June 23, 2014
Health Update
Arrogance and Pride
Tuesday, June 17, 2014
Growing Pains in the Church
24 He doeth not anything save it be for the benefit of the world; for he loveth the world, even that he layeth down his own life that he may draw all men unto him. Wherefore, he commandeth none that they shall not partake of his salvation.
25 Behold, doth he cry unto any, saying: Depart from me? Behold, I say unto you, Nay; but he saith: Come unto me all ye ends of the earth, buy milk and honey, without money and without price.
26 Behold, hath he commanded any that they should depart out of the synagogues, or out of the houses of worship? Behold, I say unto you, Nay.
27 Hath he commanded any that they should not partake of his salvation? Behold I say unto you, Nay; but he hath given it free for all men; and he hath commanded his people that they should persuade all men to repentance.
28 Behold, hath the Lord commanded any that they should not partake of his goodness? Behold I say unto you, Nay; but all men are privileged the one like unto the other, and none are forbidden.
Now I understand the case with Kate Kelly is a bit different from the other two because she seems to be rallying for a cause, but I think our leaders should at least sit down with her and listen to her and let her know of their sincere love and concern and try to work something out. Also, if the answer is "no, the Lord has directly directed that women are not to participate in church government the way men do", then they need to listen to the grievances and come up with a way for these women members to feel safe and important for real at church. I think it could be done. But it would take some dialogue, some praying and pondering and probably some humility. Just cutting someone out like that is just going to make her followers feel more unwelcome and unaccepted at church and the conversation is just going to keep going.
The other bad side effect of all this is all the news coverage all over the place. People who might otherwise accept the Book of Mormon and learn of Christ through our church will not even consider it, because "what a weird church" - kicking out members for supporting women and gay people, and especially that ad campaign that tries to show otherwise.
I think the underlying problem in all of this is authoritarianism. It is just human as described in D&C 121:
39 We have learned by sad experience that it is the nature and disposition of almost all men, as soon as they get a little authority, as they suppose, they will immediately begin to exercise unrighteous dominion.
I don't think "all men" excludes high up leaders in the church.
We have been studying US history and the constitution and I would say that overall, the constitution has had quite a positive impact on the world. At least part of the reason the Constitution has been so good is that it built in a series of checks and balances to protect the everyday people from overreaching governmental bodies. It also built in a way for the people being ruled to switch out their rulers and for the rulers to answer to the people. Maybe something of that sort would work in the church? Bring back common consent? Honestly I think that this will all work itself out for the better. I think the conversations and dialogue need to happen. There are people in the church who are hurting. We need them, they need us, we all need each other. We need to not tell people they should just leave if they don't like it. Many of them have testimonies and they want to stay, they want church to be a safe place for everyone. It may be painful, but I think things will end up being much much better. There is a lot of good in the church, we just need to keep that up and become even better. And kudos to these brave souls willing to bring the subject ou into the open and giving the rest of us a chancet o consider other options and ideas.